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The question is pretty obvious, when is enough, enough? men everywhere deal with the everyday circumstances of being taken for granted, under appreciated, or the misvalue of their worth and contributions to the world, work environment, family and even their relationship and marriage. So why is it that the men who truly want a better life find themselves being the ones who are caught in the misconduct of their encounters?

Yet, in the era we are living in the light is shined on how women are the victims! Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that women are not victimized in this world. However, with light being shined on the women it underhands the men to be throw in and out from under the torment of a traumatizing treatment. cleverly with the light shining on the victimized women, nobody knows what happens in the shadows of the men’s torment.

In relationships, a man who bends over backwards for his wife, may work, clean, cook, and massage her feet here and there gets told he doesn’t do enough, or is held accountable for things he doesn’t do or wouldn’t do! The faithful man gets accused for talking to men he doesn’t know or has even seen.

The working man gets used for his money, because if he doesn’t buy her what she wants, then he doesn’t love her like he says he does. in most cases men, like myself like to hold the things in that bother me! Men feel that they rather work out their own situation, rather than trouble anyone else with them! Yet right before they reach the break through of solving their own problems, they’re often hit with another problem.

We are constantly reminded of how we aren’t good enough, or strong enough, or man enough to actually be a “man!” So, women question why don’t we talk to them about our problems, our issues, our thoughts! Well, considering the issues of a man’s ego, handling a situation ourselves is what we have left of and within ourselves to be able to feel that sense of purpose in calling and being a man!

So, when is enough, enough? When and where is the breaking point that a man draws a line and does what’s best for him? not that he has to leave or step out on his own. Not that he should go out and cheat on his wife. Yet, when is the moment that he can find a place for himself to gather the strength he needs to be as great as a man he has the potential to be? When will there be a time when we can find a way to talk to the woman we are with and not be judged or seen as weak? when will it be save to say what needs to be said, and not have it thrown in our faces in the next argument. its not about the recognition, or position that the world has placed on each of us as individuals, it’s about the equality of trust, companionship and respect for each other’s feelings and worth! what kind of advice do you think can be given to these men who suffer from the dis-ease of self criticism because of the lack of awareness they are receiving for their efforts. is there any advice that can be given to men who are going through these situations, whether it comes from another man or woman who can understand the situation and come from a non criticism standpoint. Are there people who know programs that can bring sanity to these men? And finally when do you think enough is enough for a man to take? every voice is a voice that can make a difference to people in this world allow it be and will!